FRESH START
We've all had that student in our classrooms that when they enter the room the tension level rises. They're perpetual smirks and disdain for authority cause your heart to race and palms to sweat. You use feeble attempts to convince yourself that you're in charge. The student has mastered the art of eye rolling in spreading negativity, and you struggle to remain enthusiastic during lessons when their present. When the students slumps in there chair, a cloud covers the classroom, and despite the rookie attempts to keep them in line, such as stating, "please return your seat" and the response would be "I wasn't doing anything! I just needed to throw something away." Or "please stop talking while I'm talking!" and they reply, "I wasn't talking!" Or, you state "please don't do that," and they respond "what? I didn't do anything wrong. You're always picking on me!"
I'm sure you're getting the picture. The student tends to make you want to scream and run out of the room, or at the very least, repeatedly bang your head against the wall. The students always seem to have an excuse, and make it difficult to consistently issue consequences. You can bet the student also senses your dislike. You may even have told others about this student, that you believe their sole mission in life is to make your everyday living hell!
What about the student doesn't seem to care about school. The one who often Mrs. homework assignments, and has a definite lack of motivation. When you work with them in class, they require constant redirection and can be a handful. The ones that would work if you stood over them and guided them, but as soon as you walk away, based here often space again.
I suggest a fresh start this year with a new perspective. What if you spent your time focusing on the things the students can do versus what the can’t do? And making it your mission to make sure they smile every day or have a conversation with you to connect with them. As you navigate your effectiveness as a teacher you must realize how important building relationships with students is, because they are searching for someone to validate them. Attempt to talk to students after class searching for something they cherish, just get to know them and to know that you have faith in them is a big deal. The hope is to plant seeds that you will take root and make a difference in each students future. Sometimes we never get to see the fruits of our labor, but even if we don't, we must believe that we planted something good that will one day grow.
I have shared a story with some about a young man who was difficult for me to deal with not only in class but also in coaching. He and I argued and battled daily. I often had to remove him from class as well as the basketball court. His senior year I even kicked him off the team, this being the only time in my career this had ever happened. About a month later he approached me and the team asking to be reinstated. The team and I discuss the situation and voted to allow him to return under certain expectations. The year went on still being a struggle but not quite as much. Five years later when I was teaching completely across the state, this young man showed up to visit. Turns out he was taking his first position as a coach and wanted to thank me for all of the lessons he learned and realized how difficult he was. He was looking forward to teaching others what he had learned from me. This is why we are educators, to plant seeds that will one day help young men and women grow to be there best.
Is easy for all of us to become discouraged when a students don't respond to our efforts. It is even more frustrating when we feel like we aren't appreciated for all that we are trying to do to help. But we must cling to the hope that our efforts made a difference. My challenge to each of you is have a Fresh Start to this school year. Attempt to build a relationship with your students, all your students. I believe this will provide great achievement and enjoyment for everyone.
Thank you for all you do for our school community…your
efforts are noticed, and appreciated!
Troy White, Principal G–E–T High School
Troy White, Principal G–E–T High School